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FAX OF LIFE
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The Fax of Life
A weekly inspiration, courtesy of the Kiwanis Club of Scotts Valley
January 15, 2006
Volume 11 Number 17
I CAN DO ALL THINGS . . .
A cold March wind danced around the dead of night in Dallas as the doctor walked into the small hospital room of Diana Blessing. She was still groggy from surgery. Her husband, David, held her hand as they braced themselves for the latest news.
That afternoon of March 10,
1991, complications had forced Diana, only 24-weeks pregnant, to undergo an
emergency Cesarean to deliver couple's new daughter, Dana Lu Blessing. At 12
inches long and weighing only one pound nine ounces, they already knew she was
perilously premature. Still, the doctor's soft words dropped like bombs.
"I don't think she's going to
make it," he said, as kindly as he could. "There's only a 10-percent chance
she will live through the night, and even then, if by some slim chance she
does make it, her future could be a very cruel one."
Numb with disbelief, David and
Diana listened as the doctor described the devastating problems Dana would
likely face if she survived.
She would, he predicted, never
walk, she would never talk, she would probably be blind, and she would
certainly be prone to other catastrophic conditions from cerebral palsy
to complete mental retardation, and on and on.
"No! No!" was all Diana could
say.
She and David, with their
5-year-old son Dustin, had long dreamed of the day they would have a daughter
to become a family of four. Now, within a matter of hours, that dream was
slipping away. But as those first days passed, a new agony set in for David
and Diana.
Because Dana's underdeveloped nervous system was essentially ‘raw', the lightest kiss or caress only intensified her discomfort. They couldn't even cradle their tiny baby girl against their chests to offer the strength of their love. All they could do, as Dana struggled alone beneath the ultraviolet light in the tangle of tubes and wires, was to pray that God would stay close to their precious little girl. Still Diana held fast, predicting that her daughter would make it.
There was never a moment when Dana suddenly grew stronger. But as the weeks went by, she did slowly gain an ounce of weight here and an ounce of strength there.
At last, when Dana turned two months old, her parents were able to hold her in
their arms for the very first time. And two months later, though doctors
continued to gently but grimly warn that her chances of surviving, much less
living any kind of normal life, were next to zero, Dana went home from the
hospital, just as her mother had predicted.
Five years later, Dana was a petite but feisty young girl with glittering gray eyes and an unquenchable zest for life. She showed no signs whatsoever of any mental or physical impairment. Simply, she was everything a little girl can be and more.
But that happy ending is far
from the end of her story.
One blistering afternoon in the
summer of 1996 near her home in Irving, Texas, Dana was sitting in her
mother's lap in the bleachers of a local ball park where her brother Dustin's
baseball team was practicing.
As always, Dana was chattering
nonstop with her mother and several other adults sitting nearby when she
suddenly fell silent
Hugging her arms across her
chest, little Dana asked, "Do you smell that?"
Smelling the air and detecting
the approach of a thunderstorm, Diana replied, "Yes, it smells like rain."
Dana closed her eyes and again
asked, "Do you smell that?"
Once again, her mother replied,
"Yes, I think we're about to get wet. It smells like rain."
Still caught in the moment, Dana
shook her head, patted her thin shoulders with her small hands and loudly
announced, "No, it smells like Him. It smells like God when you lay your
head on His chest."
Tears blurred Diana's eyes as
Dana happily hopped down to play with the other children.
Before the rains came, her
daughter's words confirmed what Diana and all the members of the extended
Blessing family had known, at least in their hearts, all along. During those
long days and nights of her first two months of her life, when her nerves were
too sensitive for them to touch her, God was holding Dana on His chest and it
is His loving scent that she remembers so well.
"I can do all things in Him who strengthens me."
Author
unknown. Forwarded by my sister, ‘NerfPat'
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